Knowing if a girl likes you and knowing if a girl is falling in love with you are two very different things. Signs of interest can be easy to recognize, but a woman falling ( or has fallen) in love will be harder to see. Not only is it rarer, but the signs are, in many ways, even more, complex and subtle.
Like they say, a woman’s heart is a deep sea of secrets; she (also) might have fallen for you, but could be shy, or waiting for the right time to say, “I love you.”
If you have a hunch that she is hiding her feelings for you, then here are 5 signs, which might give you hints about what lies in her heart. The more adept you become at recognizing these signs, the easier it will be to decide whether or not to make your move.
She always make eye contact with you.
Eye contact shows attraction. When she talks to you, she looks you straight in the eyes. She may look away and blush if you stare back into her eyes. While it is perfectly normal for people to make eye contact when talking to others, she probably locks eyes with you more than most people. If you catch her stealing glances at you, then that is a strong sign that she has fallen for you. She might act all cold if you catch her in the act, but her eyes would not be able to hide her true feelings.
She laughs at your jokes.
You might be a funny guy, but are you really funny enough that she laughs at every joke you tell? Honestly, your jokes are probably not that great. But who cares. She thinks they are hilarious and will laugh at every joke you pull out of your hat, even when they are silly. Laughter could be a sure sign that she has fallen for you. However, some guys miss this just because they like to believe that they are a professional stand up comedian, but the fact is that she probably has feelings for you.
She pays attention to details.
When a woman is into you, she will become an expert on you. Did you get a different haircut, change your perfume, buy a new t-shirt? She will notice, comment and compliment. When most women like a guy, they tend to learn everything they can about them and retain that information. She will remember the random and silliest details about you, like your favorite food, color, music, etc. If she seems to keep track of every little thing that you tell her, then, she’s probably interested in you as more than just a friend.
She shows through body language.
Body language is non-verbal communication. When you are trying to determine whether or not a girl secretly has feelings for you, it’s important to take a close look at her body language. She might be hiding her feelings verbally, but the body language is something she cannot conceal. If she likes you, she will be her own self around you. She may smile around you a lot, play with her hair, sit near you, and touch you when you make a joke.
All these could be clues that she might have feelings that she is hiding.
She has told her friends know about you. If there is a woman that you suspect has feelings for you and she has already told her friends about you, your suspicions are probably true. This is because, even though women talk about every guy, but the ones that they really like, they talk highly of them to their friends.
So, if she is hiding her feelings for you, or if she is still developing feelings, there’s a good chance her friends already know who you are. You may have met them once or twice, but they know you very well.
She gives you meaningful gifts.
Gifts speak volumes, especially when they are given by a woman. When a woman gets you a gift, she likely put some thought into it as a clue of how much she cares. A meaningful gift doesn’t have to be (and often, isn’t) very expensive. On the contrary, a meaningful gift is one that lets you know that communicates her affection without regard for money. Maybe you mentioned a book that you really want to read, and a few days later she surprises you with a copy.
Or maybe you showed her a pair of sunglasses you really love to have and she gets you one days later. So, if she is giving you gifts that require thought or special attention to what you say, she might be communicating something very meaningful – that she is falling (or has fallen) in love with you.
The fact is that most women aren’t very straightforward when it comes to telling men how they feel. They rather leave clues and hope that you figure it out. So, look out for the above-mentioned signs! If your lady-friend’s antics match the criteria, chances are that she is head-over-heels for you!