He ditched me immediately he saw wealth so I cursed him!

By Tesia  Anigbo

Awwwn… met this pretty lady today and her story touched me and I think I should share it with you but I will make it brief.

She said it’s fun and wonderful at first, met him when he had nothing to boast of. He was an orphan and found it so hard to even pay school fees while he was in school and suddenly, he changed immediately he graduated. Takes my advice as if am trying to control him, talks to me without respect, compared me with ladies out there and doesn’t find me interesting.

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Tesia, he deflowered me, he took my heart, I gave him everything both my savings, everything. Tesia I had sleepless night anytime he said he is bothered, I did more of fasting and praying for him more than I can do for my family.

Tesia I prayed for us and finally he is blessed, working in a company, earns two times more than my family… Tesia, we both believed that I will be the mother of his children and him, the father… Tesia, what I have I done wrong tell me… What? cause am still in shock if this is a dream or reality…

To tell you the truth, I was dumbfounded for complete 5  minutes before I could muttered a word. I realized that love is a mystery just like life. I will tell you exactly what I told her to the victims out there.

Never you struggle so hard to be with a man or woman out there, you can fight for it but you need to get out of the way for God to show you why he is called God, for him to do the rest, God has shown her many times that he is not her man but she persisted.

Some people are meant to fall in love but not destined to be together but people think those words are nothing. I understand how it feels, I really have been there but cursing is not the solution instead, cry out your pain, wipe those obstacles called tears and speak out your anger in a private room and then shove it away. Come out with a face full of smile and show him how happy and grateful you are to him for making you realize that you loved him because of PITY! Which is a wrong idea for falling in love.

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Is hard, I know but don’t lose your destiny because of an obstacle God removed for you.

You prayed for both of you, right… But lady, destiny took its course here and there nothing you can do about it. Some pray and it works out for them while some will pray and then is not what you expected while some as well won’t pray and they both end up together…. So is your destiny and no one should state how your destiny will look like.

Common sense should tell you that, that woman or man knows nothing about your destiny and knows nothing about how the God you serve works…I hope this message will make you strong if you are a victim of such… And remember, he made that money because of God and you have no right to curse him or judge for his actions, you know why, is because KARMA is real.


  1. Truly some people love out of pity and one thing about life is that if God loves u he will keep u away from what is not urs.Not every relationship will end in marriage try to hard some piece of ur heart in any relationship.

    • Yea, that was a good one… That’s why is good to love with your head instead your whole heart or even if you wanna love with your whole heart, you should be smart enough to read signs….

  2. Although what the guy did was not cool, I would say that it was a mistake on the part of the lady to put in so much on a relationship with little commitment. Never the less it’s just like a bad bussiness deal, just got to let go while hoping that a better deal comes along. While learning the big lesson of never to invest more than you can risk next time, but if you must make sure you have got insurance.

  3. Ladies, Don’t u ever push a man 2 love u
    Don’t love a man more than He Loves u
    Allow a Man 2 be the One pushing it…

  4. A relationship is like a contract to both parties,we’ve heard this kind of stories and more heartbreaking ones from both male and females in a relationship. Sometimes we also need to understand that God could put us in someone’s life so as to bless them through you,so are we going to tell him he did wrong because we had higher expectations than he planned?, so I believe its best she picks up herself and move on because her mr .right is definitely out there waiting for her. She should thank God that this contract didn’t work out because maybe it might have ended up being a story of domestic violence that we could have been hearing now.

  5. Well said Tesia, but I would like to point out what I think is the area of linkage/less attention when going into a relationship or marriage rather. Firstly, like I always say, despite the fach that human being are unpredictable, you can still exercise some level of predictions depending on how creative you are through their rod of reasoning which geared from their favorite and constant characters and this can be stratagized through unconscious responses you got from questions you ordinarily asked the fellow. In addition, the more you equate relationship to mystery the safer you become, what I’m trying to point out here is that no matter the level of love you have for someone, love with your head with little or no involvement of heart to avoid sacrifysing much at your own expense, to avoid a story that touches the heart. However, if the it truly workout then, you bring out 70% of your heart in the relationship and keep 30 to also control the in case of necessity

  6. We fall, but the trick is in the RISING. Every turn may not be the right turn but the route most have been mastered… Life is a mystery but we are deeper than the mystery. She will be fine. Nice piece. Keep it up. And also you may need to put a little more work on the writing. Cheers.

  7. Yes u don’t fight for anyone cause nobody worth it. It’s only God that makes all things possible. He said b4 I formed thee I knew thee.

  8. Loving out of pity is the biggest mistake u will ever make, u will just keep trying not to hurt someone at the expense of your own happiness. Tesia this is beautiful I love it

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